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28-01-2006, 09:04 PM
Treating Women with Kindness
Many of us have heard stories of men treating their wives badly as if they were slaves of an oppressive master. Islam has forbidden such conduct, and the last command of the Prophet was, " ... Act kindly towards women."
We should be gentle to our wives, treat them nicely and respect them, particularly in front of the children. The Prophet said, [B]"The most perfect of the believers in faith is he who is the most excellent of them in morals and the best of you are they who are best for their wives." [Tirmidhi]
We should not look for perfection in this universe; but accept what is best! There is no need to demand perfection from our wives while we are drowned in our own flaws. The Prophet said, "A believer must not hate a believing woman. If he dislikes any of her characteristics, he will be pleased with another one." [Reported by Muslim]
[Compiled from "Winning the Heart of Your Wife" by Ibraahim Ibn Saaleh al-Mahmud. pp. 10,11]
Many of us have heard stories of men treating their wives badly as if they were slaves of an oppressive master. Islam has forbidden such conduct, and the last command of the Prophet was, " ... Act kindly towards women."
We should be gentle to our wives, treat them nicely and respect them, particularly in front of the children. The Prophet said, [B]"The most perfect of the believers in faith is he who is the most excellent of them in morals and the best of you are they who are best for their wives." [Tirmidhi]
We should not look for perfection in this universe; but accept what is best! There is no need to demand perfection from our wives while we are drowned in our own flaws. The Prophet said, "A believer must not hate a believing woman. If he dislikes any of her characteristics, he will be pleased with another one." [Reported by Muslim]
[Compiled from "Winning the Heart of Your Wife" by Ibraahim Ibn Saaleh al-Mahmud. pp. 10,11]