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Allahu Akbar
28-07-2005, 01:10 PM
Behavior When Meeting Others


A Muslim should observe the following:

1. He should smile, for a smile is the key to a successful meeting. However, he should not smile at people because of their material wealth.
2. He should be first to salute other Muslims.
3. He should not bow to any person when saluting, no matter who he is and whatever the occasion.
4. When meeting others and after saluting, he should extend his right hand and shake hands; this enhances mutual respect.
5. He should not shake hands with anyone for whom it might be a nuisance.
6. If his hand is dirty and someone wants to shake hands with him, he should politely excuse himself, explaining the reason.
7. He should not feel upset about shaking hands at every meeting.
8. Men shake hands with men, and women with women. If a woman wants to shake hands with a man or vice versa, he/she should excuse himself/herself.
9. Too many questions about the family, etc. when meeting is a time-wasting activity and is likely to lead to boredom, so he should avoid it.
10. When a meeting is finished he should extend his hand to shake hands once again, saying: Asalamu Alaikum (peace be upon you).
11. He should not shake hands with someone who has a contagious disease.

MoonShine
28-07-2005, 01:19 PM
LOL@ Point 11. Classic.

My problem is no-one smiles back at you where I come from, infact, smiling at a stranger is akin to insulting someone’s mum up here... :S

LocalGenius
28-07-2005, 02:22 PM
LOL you smile????

FractionMan
28-07-2005, 02:26 PM
The full post with all the list of characteristics can be found at this link

http://www.fabonline.com/topics/articles/ISLAMzMoralsandMannersinIslam.htm

MoonShine
28-07-2005, 02:38 PM
I smile loads...hmm..maybe it's the cold glare that goes with it that puts people off... hmmm

<goes to practice smiling and making it look as if she means it>

Islammiya
28-07-2005, 06:10 PM
I think it is probably better to refrain from showing the teeth, ........................................perhaps the odd tenner might go down well....................................

Illuminate
28-07-2005, 07:02 PM
Smiling is sunnat of our prophet(saw), so you get reward for smiling.

A genuine smile increases the production of serotonin, the happy hormone.

It's a bonding agent. Smiling builds bridges to other people around us. It keeps us from remaining aloof and separate from one another. Babies as young as three weeks old even recognize smiling as a bonding behavior.

What a workout! One smile uses more than 16 muscles

Arefa
28-07-2005, 10:19 PM
Even a smile is charity :)

Sahih Muslim narrates that: "Every good act is an act of charity". In another version the hadith, it says: "Your smile to your brother is a charitable act. :)

FlipFlop
29-07-2005, 09:00 AM
i tend to smile too much.

people think i'm crazy!